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Why check a couple's compatibility by horoscope?

Horoscope compatibility is an important indicator of favorable interaction between people, especially loving couples.

It is known that love blinds. Yes, a feeling of happiness, inspiration and energy, and you don’t notice any flaws in the object of your love. Even if some kind soul tells the truth about his beloved, you won’t believe it. A negative opinion may simply be hidden envy, a mistake... but the horoscope, the stars themselves in the sky, do not lie. You just need a professional “interpreter” of their signs - an astrologer you can trust.

And even if the second in a couple has no obvious shortcomings, still, unfortunately or fortunately, the incompatibility of people may become apparent. He will be drawn away from his ideal wife; she will be annoyed by his correct and impeccable behavior.

Besides, people change. Lovers usually swear by eternity, make unrealistic promises... but a year or two passes, and all that remains is to surprise. But if you know that in ten years he will have problems with finances, and she will have problems with the law (this is an example of such extremes), then both should think about maintaining a couple. And not only to those who may be left alone, but also to those who expose a loved one to such a risk. And ten years only seems like a long time, but it flies by quickly.

If you listen to the astrologer’s recommendations, you can prepare for life’s “surprises.” And here, even without passion, when creating a couple with a suitable person, you can notice how the feeling of love and respect grows. It is better to prepare for such an important matter as a relationship than to rush into its abyss, wasting your total time and energy.
You can trust a horoscope; the influence of stars on people simply cannot be denied. It is important here, in addition to a professional astrologer, to treat everything without fanaticism, maintaining harmony. And then you can spoil the best relationship in a couple.

Is it possible to find out about compatibility by date of birth in love (option for independent calculation)

Even in ancient times, it was noted that the date of birth influences the fate of a person. Let's figure out how to find out using numerology whether your significant other is compatible with you.

  1. First you need to write the numbers of your birthdays in a row and add them up. For example, if a girl was born on November 20, 1995, and a guy was born on August 2, 1994, then we add 2+1+1+1+9+9+5+2+8+1+9+9+4 = 61
  2. From the resulting figure, you need to subtract 22: For the case under consideration, we get 39.
  3. If we get a number greater than 22, then we return to step 2 until we get a smaller number.
  4. For the obtained numbers, look at the key presented below.

Digit 1. In your relationship there will be a struggle for leadership of the relationship, due to everyone's desire for leadership. Despite this, when working on yourself, a good union is possible.

Digit 2. One of the strongest and most faithful unions. Mutual understanding and support reign in relationships. Even from the first minutes of meeting you, you might think that you have known this person for 100 years.

Number 3. Such a relationship can develop into a happy marriage. Couples are characterized by stability, wealth and vitality.

Number 4. It is impossible to move away from the intensity of passions and emotions inherent in a couple. To maintain the union, it is necessary to abandon selfishness and not trust gossip.

Number 5. A strong relationship, but one person will guide the other in all matters. The main thing is not to forget about mutual understanding.

Number 6. Love and harmony will reign in the family, but addiction is possible. Maintain a warm and affectionate relationship to avoid this.

Number 7. Travel, trips and long distances are destined for such a couple. It will be difficult to maintain the union due to separation. It is important to make the right decision.

Number 8. Such relationships are often commercial. You need to make sure that your partner’s feelings are sincere; if this is the case, then there is nothing to worry about.

Number 9. One of the partners will be haunted by a feeling of loneliness. Think about whether you want this.

Number 10. Success, luck and fortune will be on the side of the couple. As a result, coors will be rare.

Number 11. Difficult relationships. Betrayal and understatement are possible.

Number 12. A relationship that will forever remain in your heart, be it a fleeting romance or a lifelong marriage.

Number 13. An “unlucky” number foretells danger in a relationship. Be careful.

Number 14. Common interests and goals guarantee strong and long-lasting relationships.

Number 15. A negative union, where one person will be haunted throughout his life by the feeling of making the wrong choice.

Number 16. If the relationship is not serious, there will be a lot of quarrels and discord.

Number 17. A great bright future awaits the couple under the auspices of the Guardian Angel.

Number 18. Deception and secrecy will reign in the relationship.

Number 19. This choice promises many children for the couple; it will not be possible to limit it to two or three children.

Number 20. At the beginning it is difficult to understand each other, but if you feel like your soulmate, then a harmonious union is possible.

Number 21. Excellent compatibility both night and day. Taking care of each other will come first.

Number 22. What will happen at the turn? You will ask yourself this question very often.

Every person wants to make the right choice. To create an ideal relationship, you can use the results of the numerology test and work on yourself together with your other half.

The result will be presented along with brief characteristics for each. Compare them in order of criteria. The favorability or tension of relationships will be determined by the nature of the Zodiac sign and the planets of the same name.

The date of birth must be supplemented by geographical location and daily time. If it is known, and you want to find out in more detail compatibility by date in the field of romantic relationships, use the “He and She” service.

The usual analysis of horoscopes for compatibility by date of birth

Knowledge is knowledge of the first causes, without this our understanding of something cannot even be called knowledge, it is rather delusion and ignorance.

The horoscope contains a lot of useful information that can be used practically. For example, understand the nature of conflicts in the family, surrounded by friends or colleagues. It contains the potential for interaction with others who also possess it. Under their influence, he will change, causing feelings of sympathy or antipathy.

Many people believe that in astrology, compatibility is determined by the zodiac signs of the Sun. This view is propagated by many media outlets and popular books. This is naive and wrong. Comparing partners by sun sign is only part of the truth. How should it really be?

Let's consider a specific example of a couple: She was born on March 24, 1985 at 00 o'clock. 55 minutes, He was born on January 28, 1980 at 5 p.m. 30 min., both were born in Moscow. Their compatibility is analyzed based on the combination of two horoscopes. In simple astrology, the date and month are enough; a year is not needed at all. Almost everyone knows about their date of birth. Let's get the couple's horoscope shown in the figure. 1.


There is a sequence of signs from Aries to Pisces. The sun of each partner is depicted in the corresponding degrees of the sign for the date (but not the time of day). Her Sun is inside the circle, His Sun is outside. The sun symbolizes self-affirmation. The manner or nature of this statement is determined by the sign of the zodiac in which the Sun is located. In this case, we can say that the Sun (the principle of self-affirmation, the fullness of being) in Aries and the Sun in Aquarius do not contradict, they complement each other. Using the indirect method of symbolic houses and adding a little everyday experience, you can write texts on compatibility for all signs for all occasions. They are not contradictory, are easy to read, excite the imagination, hold attention, preparing the reader to perceive the main material of the publication (advertising), in fact, this is what they are made for.

What does compatibility reveal in more detail? All remaining planets of the solar system, their relative positions at the time of birth (daily time), as seen from Earth. Taking into account the daily time of birth of each, the horoscope of our couple will look like in the picture.



Here is the usual set of planets of classical astrology - the Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, Pluto, Lunar nodes. The list can be expanded to include asteroids, fictitious planets, and various points. The planets reveal the fullness of the existence of the Sun, therefore the information content is significantly higher and more reasonable than the assumptions of simple astrology.
The place factor brings in the last necessary element of the horoscope - houses. If the signs of the zodiac and the calculation of the positions of the planets according to them relate to the ecliptic (the orbit of the Earth around the Sun), that is, to the heavens, space, then the houses are analogues of the same signs assigned to a specific point on the Earth, since from different geographical places the positions of parts of the sky are seen according to differently. It is the houses that fill the cosmic view of the sky with earthly content. The couple's horoscope takes on its final form.



Compatibility by date, time and place of birth


This geometric picture really is compatibility horoscope. Here are signs, planets, aspects - angular distances (colored lines in the inner circle) between the planets, indicating their positive or tense relationship, houses - sectors, indicated by numbers from 1 to 12. This picture is analyzed by an astrologer, drawing up an explanation, interpretation or interpretation horoscope, translation from symbolic-geometric language into ordinary.
Agree that this is completely individual and has very little in common with the horoscope of simple astrology.
It is interesting to note that the compatibility of partners based on date of birth cannot be limited to pair comparisons. The people around them, with whom they constantly contact, also make an involuntary contribution to their relationships. Everyone is familiar with situations when a young couple lives with their parents, a child communicates with classmates and friends, a person works in a group of employees or a team, and so on. The influence of the environment can be significant. Combining more than two cards in one picture becomes very difficult to read, which is why we never see the characteristics of more than two partners being compared at the same time. "Astropartner" offers a way to bypass this limitation and expand the view on the problem of compatibility by date of birth in the section "

No one wants to waste time on a doomed relationship, and it’s not easy to understand in a short time what to expect from a person. I found a way out: some time ago I became interested in astrology and numerology, and now I know what to expect from a potential partner. Now I’ll tell you about checking compatibility by zodiac sign, date of birth and name.

From my own experience I was convinced that the characteristics of a person by zodiac sign deserve attention. Capricorns are deceptively gloomy, taciturn, prone to reflection, Leos adore themselves and attention to their person, Libra thinks for a long time, and is always tormented by the torment of choice. A slightly superficial description: similar qualities are characteristic of everyone, but some signs have pronounced inclinations towards certain patterns of behavior. A detailed description of each zodiac sign gives an understanding of the person of interest.

The compatibility of a couple by zodiac sign is based on the Sun, so it is impossible to accurately predict whether the couple will be successful, whether they will reach the wedding altar and whether they will run away in a couple of years. But we can conclude how harmonious and conflictual the union will be. I suggest you look at the sign.

Red color means closeness of partners in spirit, the presence of similar interests and views on life, and blue means a high probability of conflicts and misunderstandings, quarrels over trifles due to lack of unity in the main things.

Checking compatibility by date of birth

With the help of isoteric practice, a possible option for developing a relationship with a person opens up: from fleeting flirtation to marriage, understand what unites you, and find the reasons for possible disagreements. By analyzing two numerological charts, harmonious combinations of numbers in various areas are revealed: Life Path Numbers, Expression, Maturity and Soul. The more favorable combinations, the greater the chances of success in love and marriage.

There are many online services that can quickly make calculations, but each of them has their own opinion about your pair, so I suggest you do the calculations yourself.

The compatibility of a couple by name and date of birth has different reasons, but, according to isotericists, the influence is equivalent. It is better to carry out such calculations comprehensively and in depth, but let’s start with the simplest.

To determine compatibility, you need to make simple calculations by sequentially adding the numbers of your date of birth and your partner’s birthday (for example, I took a random date).

So, we got the number 1. We repeat the procedure for the second date, we get another number. It's time to look at the table.

Legend:

  • A means 100%,
  • B equals 75%,
  • C– probability of success 50%,
  • D – rather low chances (25%).

I agree, these are rather dramatic indicators, so I propose to perform a more complex version of the calculations: sequentially add both dates, obtaining the main number that determines the nature of the relationship in the couple.

Decoding main numbers from 1 to 9

  1. A harmonious relationship is possible if the couple has one leader.
  2. The union is based on material reasons, not feelings.
  3. Symbolizes the relationship of freedom-loving partners prone to inconstancy.
  4. A balanced, harmonious union with the possibility of creating a strong family.
  5. A storm of emotions, a whirlwind of feelings, raging passion - this is about you. Try to curb your selfish impulses, and everything will work out.
  6. A strong alliance based on friendship and mutual respect.
  7. Relationships can become harmonious provided there is mutual understanding, tact and support.
  8. Discard unreasonable jealousy and mistrust, because your union has a great chance of developing into a prosperous married life.
  9. Intellectuals, idealists - perhaps you couldn’t say it better. Stability is guaranteed if there is a financial base.

As I said, it is better to calculate not only compatibility by date of birth, but also the Pythagorean square. The technique is a numerical characteristic of personal qualities sufficient to determine character compatibility. The calculations relate to determination, self-esteem, temperament, spirituality, energy, character, stability, talent, family, performance. I’ll tell you more about it in the next article.

Compatibility of partners by name

In my opinion, the most inaccurate way to find out the compatibility of a couple. A person’s name gives him a certain energy and a certain set of qualities to which he is predisposed, but there are names whose meaning is unknown: one can only guess.

It is not possible to describe the compatibility of all names, so I advise you to use an Internet service, or better yet several, to check the result.

  • Everything has meaning in this process: literally every letter. If a letter is repeated several times in a name, its meaning is enhanced.
  • The more pairs of identical letters in the names, the stronger the union will be. If you follow this path, you are doomed to success.

  • 1+1 – The two leaders should seek compromises more often, otherwise the relationship will not last long.
  • 1+2 – A harmonious couple with a good understanding of each other.
  • 1+3 – Spark, storm, madness. Are you tired of living like on a volcano?
  • 1+4 – Everything is great, but you need to find a common cause or hobby.
  • 1+5 – You are absolutely not bored with each other.
  • 1+6 – Partners understand and always support each other.
  • 1+7 – Over time, you will become soul mates.
  • 1+8 – Your relationship needs equality.
  • 1+9 – Excellent compatibility of people who love, understand and support each other.
  • 2+2 – Stop trying to figure out who’s boss!
  • 2+3 – Harmonious relationships, potential strong family.
  • 2+4 – The initiative must be mutual. Don't be afraid to open up to your partner.
  • 2+5 – Personal ambitions can consume partners.
  • 2+6 – Harmonious couple.
  • 2+7 – The best relationships have couples who have become lovers and friends.
  • 2+8 – Continue to get the most out of life together.
  • 2+9 – A couple that unites opposites.
  • 3+3 – Everyone has the right to personal space.
  • 3+4 – Sincerity and love are the main conditions for the continuation of a relationship.
  • 3+5 – Do something together.
  • 3+6 – Ideal pair.
  • 3+7 – Despite your differences, you can be happy.
  • 3+8 – A huge number of conflicts and quarrels.
  • 3+9 – General plans and love – an excellent tandem.
  • 4+4 – Down-to-earth, pragmatic, rational relationships.
  • 4+5 – Everyone needs support and mutual understanding.
  • 4+6 – You are one team.
  • 4+7 – Try to dilute the calm with passion and a whirlwind of emotions.
  • 4+8 – There are chances, but there will always be quarrels about who is on top.
  • 4+9 – A wonderful strong couple.
  • 5+5 – Union with good compatibility.
  • 5+6 – Positive emotions and pleasant surprises accompany this couple.
  • 5+7 - Yes, they are different, yes, different, but love each other.
  • 5+8 – Reduce your ambitions and integrity.
  • 5+9 – Get to know each other better, especially in everyday life.
  • 6+6 – You shouldn’t keep your thoughts and experiences to yourself.
  • 6+7 – You are one.
  • 6+8 – Idealist+realist=good partnership.
  • 6+9 – Both will want manifestations of feelings from their partner.
  • 7+7 – You are a couple, so everyone should be interested in their partner, and not focus solely on themselves.
  • 7+8 - Unsuccessful alliance.
  • 7+9 – At least one of you must be realistic, then everything will work out.
  • 8+8 – With good compatibility, two leaders should divide their spheres of influence.
  • 8+9 - You should be connected by a common cause.
  • 9+9 – Patience is the key to a happy relationship.

Don't worry if the compatibility is not perfect. Ideal relationships, like people, do not exist - you need to work on them, together and with desire from both sides. You shouldn’t get hung up on the results of compatibility: they are designed to help partners understand each other, and not to scare and make them quarrel because Libra and Capricorn are incompatible, and after adding up their birth dates you end up with a deuce. All this becomes unimportant if people love each other and are sincerely ready to find compromises and solve existing problems.

Partners are attracted to each other and want intimacy. If they receive it, then this is accompanied by significant satisfaction, since both partners “speak the same language” and understand well what each other needs. Their passions may coincide at the most necessary moments.

Seal of happiness for a man

A woman makes a man happier. This can be expressed in completely different ways, but one thing is clear - a man enjoys the company of this woman, since at the right moment she can cheer him up, give advice, and even (not uncommonly) please him with some kind of gift. She is ready to support his endeavors in many ways. This is a very good aspect.

Non-conflict union

With this combination, the man and woman do not oppose each other. They are tactful where necessary, and their actions are also quite coordinated and do not affect the interests of their partner. Even if a clash occurs (which is rare), then in almost any case they can sooner or later find a compromise.

A man and a woman go well together in appearance. Their gender roles fit well together, resulting in the “flourishing” of the woman and the “masculinity of the man.” This can be expressed, for example, in the same taste in clothes, in the same lifestyle, in the same facial features or compatible build. This aspect is very good for theater actors or dance partners - they can be similar in appearance and in their “habits”.

Psychological Understanding

Examples of intimate compatibility horoscope:

intimate satisfaction

Partners are attracted to each other and want intimacy. If they receive it, then this is accompanied by significant satisfaction, since both partners “speak the same language” and understand well what each other needs. Their passions may coincide at the most necessary moments.

Intimate dissatisfaction

Partners are attracted to each other, and there may even be a connection, but it cannot become strong after a while. It will be difficult for them to get satisfaction from each other, since in the compatibility horoscope there are no common points of contact, as if they “speak” different languages.

Excellent intimate compatibility!

A man and a woman can truly enjoy each other, being on the same wavelength of sensations and pleasant impressions. This is exactly the compatibility horoscope that gives the best picture - partners “charge” each other with positivity, which greatly strengthens their union.

No intimate crossings

In this case, it is more of a negative situation than a positive one. Partners need a certain core of the relationship, attraction, satisfaction with each other, which will keep them together and not allow them to look at other, more interesting candidates. It's quite difficult to get it here. Especially in the long term.

Examples of the level of happiness in the compatibility horoscope:

Seal of happiness

A woman makes a man happier. This can be expressed in completely different ways, but one thing is clear - a man enjoys the company of this woman, since at the right moment she can cheer him up, give advice, and even (not uncommonly) please him with some kind of gift. She is ready to support his endeavors in many ways. This is a very good aspect in the compatibility horoscope.

Seal of happiness

A man makes a woman happier. He treats her more favorably than women with whom he does not have this aspect. This can be expressed in completely different ways, but the essence is the same - he is generous to her, ready to support and please her in every possible way. He is ready to answer her “Yes” more often to her various endeavors, requests and even whims. This is a very good aspect in the compatibility horoscope.

Mutual seal of happiness!

This is a unique case - both partners make each other happier. Couples with this combination are very happy due to the fact that the partners mutually support each other and treat each other with warmth. With this combination and in the absence of other negative aspects in the love horoscope, they can survive almost any adversity, which in ordinary couples creates a difficult mood and disunity.

Examples of the level of unhappiness in the compatibility horoscope:

A sign of misfortune for a man

A woman suppresses a man. This is a very negative aspect in the compatibility horoscope, which overshadows the effect of other harmonious aspects. In this case, the woman treats the man very strictly, dryly and perhaps even cruelly. In her presence, he clearly feels this on himself: an outflow of strength, a drop in mood and motivation. Married couples with such aspects in the compatibility horoscope are rarely formed, but if they are formed (for example, forced circumstances), then the man then suffers from the woman’s attacks, unless he is accustomed to matriarchy from childhood or loves the woman so much. A woman should pacify her demands on a man and try to treat him more gently and kindly.

A sign of misfortune for a woman

A man suppresses a woman. This is a very negative aspect in the compatibility horoscope, which overshadows the effect of other harmonious aspects. In this case, the man treats the woman very strictly, dryly and perhaps even cruelly. In his presence, she clearly feels this on herself: an outflow of strength, a drop in mood and motivation. Married couples with such aspects are rarely formed, but if they are formed, the woman then suffers from the sometimes unreasonable harsh attitude of the man. This is fraught with depression on her part. A woman should not take a man’s harshness to heart and try to maintain a good mood.
(please check the accuracy of the entered time of birth of both partners - this aspect may disappear if the correct time of birth is entered)

Mutual seal of misfortune!

Both partners suppress each other. This is the most negative celestial combination that can be encountered in life. Couples with this aspect live in discord. Living in harmony and a healthy state of mind is very difficult. Usually such couples are formed due to forced circumstances.
(please check the accuracy of the entered time of birth of both partners - this aspect may disappear from the compatibility horoscope if the correct time of birth is indicated)

Examples of the level of conflict in the compatibility horoscope:

Non-conflict union

With this combination, the man and woman do not oppose each other. They are tactful where necessary, and their actions are also quite coordinated and do not affect the interests of their partner. Even if a clash occurs (which is rare), then in almost any case they can sooner or later find a compromise.

Conflict alliance

With this combination, a man and a woman oppose themselves to each other. There come times when they are tactless where necessary. It happens that a conflict arises out of nowhere: they become aggressive, stubborn or principled, believing that they are right, while refusing to apologize or take the blame. Failure to agree often leads to disunity, distance, and often the breakdown of relationships. If there are 3 such aspects in the compatibility horoscope, then good intimate compatibility is necessary, so that there is “something to forgive for”, so that there is affection.

Examples of external compatibility in a horoscope:

"External" compatibility (nice addition)

A man and a woman go well together in appearance. Their gender roles fit well together, resulting in the “flourishing” of the woman and the “masculinity” of the man. This can be expressed, for example, in the same taste in clothes, in the same lifestyle, in the same facial features or compatible build. This aspect in the compatibility horoscope is very good for theater actors or dance partners - they can be similar in appearance and in their “habits”.

Minor "external" incompatibility

A man and a woman may not be exactly alike. This can be expressed, for example, in different tastes in clothing, in different lifestyles, in different facial features or different builds. In itself, this aspect in the compatibility horoscope does not cause any trouble.

Examples of psychological compatibility in a horoscope:

Psychological Understanding

A man and a woman understand each other well psychologically. With such aspects it is quite easy for them to communicate, share impressions and experiences. Perhaps a general sense of humor. The ability to understand your partner’s mood and adapt to the wave. Or sympathy for the partner’s inner world.

A little psychological misunderstanding

In this case, difficulties may arise in understanding one partner by the other. There are situations when it is difficult to convey your mood or experience so that your partner gets into it or at least understands what we are talking about.

Compatibility analysis by element is the simplest, but quite effective way to understand in general how temperamentally compatible partners are with each other. After all, the elements are the basic elements of a horoscope, reflecting its basic energies and, accordingly, a person’s psychological inclinations and his life values. We consider the balance of the elements in detail in an individual horoscope. You can read more about the elements in a small fragment from the book “Astrology, Psychology and the Four Elements” by Stefan Arroyo. According to the author, “analysis of the harmony of the elements in a comparison of cards shows how and where two people can feed each other’s energy fields, as well as block the flow of the partner’s energy and, therefore, bring disappointment to each other. If such a blockade exists, people experience great disappointment or serious energy depletion, and sometimes both. In the case of mutually harmonious energy exchange, people experience satisfaction, revitalization and a feeling of completeness."

There are different opinions about which combinations of elements are best for an alliance. For example, some believe that for harmonious relationships it is necessary that partners have a common or related element, for example, related couples are fire-air, earth-water. Others believe that partners should complement each other, i.e. have an attunement to opposite elements. As often happens, the optimum is somewhere in the middle. Experience shows that people with opposite temperaments are often more interesting to each other at first, but over time it turns out that it is difficult for them to be together for a long time, so their energies are depleted. On the other hand, people tuned in to the same energy feel comfortable in each other’s company, but over time, without complementary and balancing energies, such a union can lead to boredom, routine and stagnation (in the case of passive elements) or to confrontation and rupture (in case active). Thus, for strong and harmonious relationships, it is better to have in the overall balance one or two elements, common or related, and a certain number of opposite elements, which will allow the union not to stand still and develop. That is, if one partner has the predominant element of air, it is important that this element is present in some quantity in the other, especially if the other has the main element, for example, earth, and vice versa, then you can count on the first one not too impractical for the second, and the second not too boring and mundane for the first. Our approach to compatibility assessment was based on this “recipe”.

For experienced users, it should be noted that the elemental analysis on this page is a little simpler than the one we use in the birth horoscope, since it does not take into account the place of birth and therefore the Ascendant and its ruler. If you received a positive assessment of elemental compatibility on this page, it means that a more complete method will not worsen the result. If you receive incompatibility, then consider the balance of the elements of each partner separately - perhaps the element of each Ascendant will add the missing element to your overall balance.

The diagram reflects the balance of the elements of the partners, on the right - the conclusion and interpretation of this distribution of energies.

Analysis of partners' expectations and needs

In this section we move on to a more specific analysis. Here we will consider the so-called significators. Traditionally, the significator (indicator) of the husband in the female horoscope is the Sun, and in the male horoscope - the Moon. There is also an approach in which for a woman born during the day, the man’s indicator is the Sun, and for a woman born at night, the main significator of the man is Mars. For a man born during the day, the significator of his wife is Venus, and for a man born at night, the main significator of his woman is the Moon. We will use a third approach where both significators for a man and a woman are considered. For a man, Venus symbolizes his beloved, and the Moon symbolizes his wife and mother; for a woman, Mars symbolizes the image of a beloved, lover, and the Sun symbolizes her husband and father. It is logical that in our time not everyone and not always loved ones become marriage partners and parents of children. For a woman, we will also consider here both her Venus and the Moon, as a signifier of the need for love and the need for security.

The position of the significators in the sign and element indicates the qualities that a person expects to find in some form in his partner. If your significator X is in the sign Y, this does not mean that your partner must be Y, but the qualities of this sign will be present in his character, behavior or profession. Therefore, we analyze the partner’s horoscope and look for qualities Y in his natal chart. Of course, first of all, these are his planets in the Y sign, the strong position of the ruler of the sign or his aspects to personal planets, which can give the desired qualities. If there are no or few such signs, it is important for compatibility that at least the qualities of the elements are present in the horoscope, therefore we also consider the affiliation of the significators to the elements.

Thus, the best compatibility is when the element of your significator is represented in the partner’s horoscope in sufficient quantity, and there are qualities of your significator’s sign.

As in the first section, it should be remembered that in our analysis we do not take into account the Ascendant and houses of the horoscope, and this can add the desired qualities to the partner. You also need to understand that our expectations and needs are always expressed positively, i.e. we don’t need “bad” qualities, but the qualities of a sign that we examine in a horoscope will not always be positive in a real person. For example, Taurus may not be a hard worker, but a stubborn lazy person; Aries may not be a brave hero, but a selfish impudent person. To do this, it is necessary to consider the partner’s horoscope as a whole.

Synastry analysis

Analysis of the relationships of planets with each other in the horoscopes of partners is a fairly common approach in assessing compatibility, although it should be noted that it is not always decisive. You also need to consider that many aspects may not be noticeable at the beginning of a relationship and will appear years later. Astrologers have different approaches to the interpretation and classification of synastric aspects. In this section we will use the approach of the St. Petersburg School of Astrology, which has become quite popular, with some of our modifications and our own, which has been present on the site for several years. We display both approaches in the form of a chart and percentages to quickly and clearly assess the potential opportunities and problems of the relationship. The calculation method was developed by us; its essence can be found below.

So, the first diagram looks at relationships in various areas of interaction:

  1. Happiness. Here we are looking for Jupiter and Saturn in aspects to the Sun and Moon for a partner. Favorable aspects of Jupiter promise happiness to a partner whose Sun or Moon is aspected by the other partner's Jupiter. This is called the "seal of happiness." Unfavorable aspects of Saturn, accordingly, are the “seal of misfortune.” It’s very simple, but, as our at least not very extensive experience in observing “seals” shows, it’s a fairly effective technique.
  2. Sexual compatibility. Here, pairs of planets that are traditionally considered indicators of physical attraction are considered and evaluated: the Sun, Mars with the Moon, Venus. We have also added to the classic aspects Uranus, Neptune and Pluto aspects to Venus, which often also contribute to passion.
  3. Level of conflict. This indicator takes into account the aspects of Mars, Jupiter, Saturn and Pluto among themselves and is considered very important, since with any negative value, conflicts and disputes cannot be avoided. Although SPbSA does not consider positive aspects, we have added them to the calculation (green part) as opportunities available for resolving conflicts. We also added aspects of Uranus, because in our opinion, tense Uranus often leads not just to conflicts, but to a breakdown in relationships.
  4. Psychological compatibility. We consider the aspects of the personal planets Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars. Shows how comfortable partners will feel with each other in everyday life.
  5. Intellectual compatibility - aspects of Mercury - thinking, interests, communication, exchange of ideas, etc.
  6. Social compatibility - all other aspects that show what interactions arise in a couple when in contact with the external environment: society and its attitudes, values, global ideas, etc.

Clicking on a column will take you to the list of aspects of the planets that were taken into account in the calculations. Click on an aspect name to read what it means. Each heading of the interpretation text is structured as follows: Name of the aspect - Planet of your horoscope (first partner) - Planet of the horoscope of your partner (second). Asterisks indicate the significance and importance of a given astrological influence

In the second technique, we divide all aspects into 4 categories:

  1. Love - feelings and sexual compatibility. Here we look at all aspects that may indicate the possibility of romantic, platonic or passionate love. It is difficult to imagine close relationships without mutual attraction and love, so the first section shows the relationships of the planets that are most conducive to the emergence of feelings.
  2. Friendship is mutual understanding and commonality of views and tastes. In order to have something to talk about and spend interesting time together, it is important that the partners are similar in some ways and complement each other in some ways. This is, in general, psychological compatibility.
  3. Cooperation and partnership. Strong and lasting relationships are impossible without the skills, abilities and conscious efforts aimed at maintaining them. The desire to make a partner happier and mutual acceptance of responsibility for each other, as well as the desire for understanding and cooperation make relationships more mature and stable.
  4. Values ​​and worldview. Common values ​​are an important basis for mutual understanding and support, helping to cope together and survive inevitable personal crises and periods of unfavorable circumstances. Here we consider aspects with the so-called. higher planets, symbolizing global values, meanings and archetypes.

How does this all count?

It is usually quite difficult or impossible to adequately translate qualitative indicators into quantitative ones. For example, there are some favorable aspects and some unfavorable ones. How good and bad is this? Although it is initially incorrect to pose the question this way and it is impossible to answer quickly and correctly, everyone asks))) we have developed a methodology that, in our opinion, makes it possible to make an approximate and relative assessment. First, using a scoring system, we evaluate all aspects between the planets of the partners according to 3 indicators: the accuracy of the aspect, its strength (sextile, square, etc.) and its significance (+/-) for the relationship. Then we added up the positive and negative indicators by category separately to obtain absolute numbers. But, for example, is 10 a lot or a little? In order to evaluate the totals relatively, some criterion that is the same for everyone is needed. A sample of 100,000 random pairs was created, for each the indicators for all categories were calculated, sorted and ranked. And so on several times. We verified that the distribution of scores does not change with changes in the composition of the sample. This means that such a distribution will be valid for both a million and a billion pairs, i.e. it can be used as a basis for evaluation.

And finally, what do percentages mean?

The percentage shows how many pairs have a similar indicator less than yours. Those. if your score is 90%, this means that approximately 90% of the pairs are worth less than you, and only 10% are more. Thus, indicators less than 50% may not be considered as something special, but this does not take away the importance and significance of the planetary aspects of your horoscopes.

Resonance of natal aspects

There are unions when partners have low indicators in synastry, but in their natal charts there are aspects between the same pairs of planets, often the same. Those. their horoscopes and, accordingly, their characters are tuned, as it were, to the same wavelength. This is how resonance occurs. This approach is rarely found even in professional literature, so we were interested in implementing it and testing it. The program calculates natal aspects, searches for matches and displays the characteristics of the found pairs.

Karmic synastry according to M. Shulman

This section examines synastric aspects as interpreted by Martin Shulman, author of the famous series of books "Karmic Astrology." The diagram was calculated using the method described above. The blue bar shows how many aspects there are between the planets in the partners’ horoscopes, which symbolizes the strength of interaction and connection between them. The green column reflects the opportunities and potential that were initially given to the partners, and the red column shows how many karmic tasks and knots the partners face that need to be untangled. A textual description of the aspects of synastry explains their meaning and offers recommendations for building harmonious relationships.