“The boys are lucky,” young girls sometimes think. – Do you like the young lady? There is no need to suffer or suffer.” And indeed, from the outside it looks like this: he approached, introduced himself, offered to go on a date, and only then everything depends only on the male fantasy. A bouquet of roses, a cup of coffee, a romantic walk, a few compliments and good puns - it seems that sympathy is guaranteed, which means that innocent flirting can turn into something more serious. Is it so? Not always, but there is some truth in this statement.

It’s more difficult for girls, since even now there is a widespread opinion that sweet and modest young ladies should not take the initiative in relationships with a man. However, waiting for the weather by the sea is also not an option, because a miracle (in the form of the appearance of a representative of the royal family on a white horse) may not happen.

If you have been puzzling over the question of how to attract a guy for a long time, read the following recommendations from experts.

A fair question: why do men fall for some girls, while the opposite sex does not pay attention to others, who are more attractive? It turns out that to attract male interest you need at least two components, which we will talk about.

Rule No. 1. Pleasant appearance

A truism: women love with their ears, and representatives of the stronger half of humanity love with their eyes. So psychologists agree with this statement, pointing out that the first impression of us is based, first of all, on appearance, and only then the interlocutors pay attention to speech and spoken words.

To attract male attention, it is absolutely not necessary to be a fashion model with imposed and practically unattainable parameters.

The main condition is naturalness and harmony. Clothes, hairstyle and manicure should be “natural”, neat and not offensive.

War paint is not advisable. Yes, excessively bright shades in makeup can attract the attention of a handsome young man, but they are unlikely to truly interest him.

Rule No. 2. Self-love

A girl who is attractive to herself will definitely be liked by the people around her. Self-confidence does not at all mean arrogance and snobbery. Adequate self-esteem helps you live in peace with yourself and be realistic about your capabilities.

Show that you are confident in yourself. The simplest and most obvious way is beautiful posture. It not only beautifies the girl, but also gives the lucky owner of a majestic gait external confidence. How to achieve it? Keep your back straight and your chin slightly raised. To this it is worth adding a smile and cheerful “lights” in the eyes.

If one of your characteristics is modesty, do not despair. Firstly, many young people prefer modest young ladies. Secondly, certain psychological exercises will help give you confidence.

Several effective methods

So, the object of adoration has been chosen, you need to begin specific steps - attracting attention, making acquaintance and first communication. How can you attract a guy to you? Using the following simple and effective, and, most importantly, time-tested and time-tested methods by other girls.

1. Try to walk past him. To get noticed, go towards your friend, acquaintance, or anything that “interests” you. This is necessary so that the young man can appreciate your cute outfit, beautiful posture and attractive smile. When passing by, do not slow down, behave naturally.
2. Meet your eyes. Of course, you shouldn’t stare at him for hours; it’s enough just to catch his gaze and not look away for a few seconds. This way the guy will understand that you like him. You can smile a little to show some interest.
3. P Make a good impression. Take care of the positive first effect. If a guy you like comes up to you, you shouldn’t giggle, coy, or generally behave unnaturally. A pleasant smile and a few meaningless phrases will be enough. In general, demonstrate your own friendliness.
4. Connect your body language. All your gestures should indicate confidence and a desire to communicate (in no case should you act loose). Try to keep your head straight, don't slouch, don't fiddle with your beads, watch or the hem of your blouse. On the contrary, lean towards the man, but do not touch him.
5. Flirting is required. Flirting is a non-binding behavior that just indicates your disposition towards the guy. It should not be confused with intrusiveness and vulgarity. Just keep communicating in a fun and easy way. Your naturalness will say more than specific words about sympathy.
6. Watch his personal space. According to psychologists, all people have a personal space, the observance of which guarantees psychological comfort. If a man allows you closer than a meter, you are doing everything right. At this stage, you can already touch him unobtrusively and understand how much he likes you.

Men react sharply to certain gestures. Thus, a girl licking her lips and touching her hair are considered quite bold and attractive signals. They can be used when communicating with the man you like, but in doses.

Rules for first communication

If the problem of how to attract the guy you like to you has been solved, you should move on to the next stage - positive communication.

We think every girl will agree with the statement that attracting male attention is only half the battle. It is extremely important to consolidate the result obtained without spoiling the impression of yourself during communication.

The rules of good form are as follows:

1. Be sincerely interested in what your interlocutor is talking about. It’s great if you discover common interests, this will help build further communication. But in a conversation, do not “go too far” by asking the young man things of, let’s say, a personal nature.
2. Wanting to embellish themselves, girls begin to invent completely incredible stories about themselves. Imagine if your relationship develops further, and the lie (embellishment) is then revealed. A man may decide that deception over trifles is a feature of your character.
3. Don’t pull the “blanket” of the conversation onto yourself. In fact, representatives of the stronger sex love to talk about themselves, so provide this opportunity to your interlocutor. Listen carefully, trying to remember the information. A few memorable facts about the guy that you say at your next meeting (if there is one) will show your interest.

It’s easy to spoil the dialogue that has begun, since you are just opening up to each other. To ensure that communication continues to flow in the direction you want, avoid things like:

• memories of a former lover and old relationships;
• comparison of the interlocutor with a former heart friend;
• complaints about life's troubles;
• vulgar words and, especially, profanity.

There is a lot of advice on how. But love is so mysterious and inexplicable that it is completely impossible to reduce it to certain rules and recommendations. Feelings between a boy and a girl can flare up suddenly - after a single phrase, look or touch. However, if you like a young man, you can and should try available methods of attracting attention to your person.

Surely, back in school you saw the following picture: a completely unsightly and awkward-looking girl from a parallel class, with a potato nose and a wild laugh, surrounded by a crowd of boys not only from your class, but even from the older parallel.

Even worse: the boy you’ve liked for a long time is chatting quite nicely with some “gray mouse” who doesn’t even have a clue about what volumizing mascara and a push-up swimsuit are. Why does such injustice occur, as it seems at first glance? The point is not at all in the vicissitudes of fate, but in the person himself. Let's talk about how to interest a guy, because his attention is so “incomprehensible” and “strange” for us women.

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To begin with, I would like to say the most banal phrase: appearance is not the main thing. No, really! Of course, it is one of the determining factors, but far from the only one. After all, as they say, there are no comrades according to taste. There is also no ideal or model of beauty. It is impossible for absolutely everyone to like it or, conversely, not like it.

Stunning appearance plays a role only on first impression. In the second case, it is the ability to attract a guy that comes to the fore. This skill is inherent in all women, and over the years it can only be improved.

How to interest a guy

Thus, it turns out that attractiveness, for the most part, depends on the “seduction” skills you have acquired. In other words, it is a certain sign language. So what “signals” are needed to get a guy interested?

• Firstly, no negativity, even in thoughts. A girl who is in a bad mood and angry at the whole world has repulsive “signals”, and the young man is unlikely to respond with interest on his part. He will not understand the reasons for this negativity, he simply will not be attracted to such a girl.
• Secondly, be confident in yourself always and everywhere. No temporary troubles should affect your self-esteem. After all, inner confidence is transmitted to the people around you, and they will immediately, on an intuitive level, be drawn to you. If it’s hard for you to believe that you are charming and look your best, then make it a habit to repeat the cherished phrase every morning in front of the mirror: “I am the most charming and attractive.” At first it will seem like complete nonsense, but then before you know it, you will believe it. Tested for yourself!
• Third, learn to listen to your body and listen to your inner voice. To do this, talk to yourself. Ask questions, answer them, draw conclusions. Prepare yourself to think that not all guys are preoccupied and expect only one thing from girls, otherwise you won’t succeed with “seduction.”

And the most important thing– this is your individuality and uniqueness. Nowadays it is very fashionable to do everything “like everyone else,” to dress “like everyone else.” Think about it, if everyone is pinned down from the roof of a 9-story building, will you jump too? Forget about the herd mentality. You are a person! There is no one else like you!

In principle, “signals” can and should be trained. I advise you to start with the mirror. Imagine that the guy of your dreams is coming towards you. Imagine how you will behave, how you will look, how you will speak...

After that, think about how you would like to behave. It turns out there is a difference. Often girls, replaying a meeting or acquaintance with a young man, blush and hit themselves on the forehead with the words: “What a fool I am! Why did I say that his hand was smeared with a felt-tip pen? Why did you scratch your ear? It probably looked so stupid from the outside.”

Not only train your “seduction signals” skills, but also consolidate them in your memory so that later everything looks natural. Falsity and pretense will be noticeable immediately.

It won’t be news if I say – be sincere! Be sincere with yourself and with other people.

Now let's talk about an equally important part of seducing a guy - about the look, about a woman's incredibly attractive look...

I won’t open America to you if I tell you that it’s not so difficult to interest a guy with your eyes. You just need to smile back shyly when you catch his eye, and then immediately turn away in the opposite direction.

So, your eyes have met... and you need to meekly look down. Like, you're embarrassed that you were "caught" watching him. After a few seconds, look up again, otherwise the guy’s interest won’t stay on you for long. Look him straight in the eyes, smile slightly, then look down again. If the “object” does not react in any way to your tricks, you should not think that he is a complete ass or that you are “out of shape” today; most likely, he is waiting for someone or is currently very much in love.

It is worth warning about the error, i.e. about the “wrong view”:

• Don't look at the guy long and hard, and also do not give too generous smiles. He will decide that you are intrusive and easily accessible.
• Don't look too harshly, otherwise the potential admirer will definitely turn to the other side of the road. Also, don't show any bitchiness. A man will be afraid to approach such a girl even within a cannon shot, even if he wants to. After all, guys actually like “bitches”, namely “bitches”, not “bitches”, but they are afraid of them and most often avoid them.
• And one more thing: no female gaze, tuned to acquaintance and communication, does not go well with a cigarette and a can of beer. Agree, you would hardly pay attention to a guy who, blowing clouds of smoke at you, drinks beer.

Women's eyes is a boundless ocean and a boundless universe for the opposite sex. And, of course, your look should have that “zest” that tactfully says: “Look at me, I’m unique!” It is very difficult not to respond to such a look, to pass by and not start a conversation.

So, you've met. How to proceed now? What should I say?

The most important- sincere interest in the conversation. By intonation, gestures and facial expressions you can determine how interesting the dialogue is to your interlocutor. Do not deceive, do not embellish yourself, do not attribute imaginary qualities and non-existent achievements. After all, it may turn out that this guy is your destiny, and you initially formed a false opinion about yourself.

• Just be yourself. If this is “your person,” then he will like you for who you are with all your advantages and disadvantages. When a young man says something, listen with interest and do not interrupt.
• Do not comment on anything or express your opinion about something that doesn’t concern you at the moment, because you just met. Just be an attentive listener. Don’t talk too much yourself, otherwise you will be considered an airhead.
• Don’t “ooh” or “aah,” don’t squeal or raise your intonation. Take your time, otherwise the guy will simply stop listening to you. Even if you naturally have a rather fast speech rate, control yourself, because... he is not yet accustomed to the peculiarities of your speech.
• Don't gesture too much- this will alienate a new acquaintance. Emotions are good, but in moderation. Moreover, a stranger simply will not understand them, and may think that you are a hot-tempered, impulsive person, prone to sudden changes in mood.

First of all, try to understand from the conversation about his interests. This way you can correctly determine the further topic of conversation. Pleasant communication is one of the main factors in the development of relationships. Don’t tell everything about yourself and your life at once, because you are not at confession, and the guy is not a priest. Stay mysterious and enigmatic. Listen more, be interested in him, because young people are very proud.

And, of course, smile more. A smile disarms and puts any person at ease. After all, friendship begins with a smile. It is much more difficult to interest a guy if the conversation is over the phone. After all, he doesn’t see your smile or your beautiful eyes.

Unfortunately, the phone is not able to convey our warm glances and playful smiles to the interlocutor. But even here you can find a way out, the main thing is to have imagination. So, how can we intrigue a guy on the phone?

• The voice will be our weapon.

More precisely, its timbre and intonation. Have you ever caught yourself that there are people with whom talking is stressful? It seems that they are not saying anything bad, but there is a strange feeling after the conversation. The thing is that you and your interlocutor are talking on different wavelengths. To prevent this from happening in a conversation with a guy, try to train your voice. Namely, adapt to his manner of speaking. If he doesn’t speak loudly, then don’t shout into the phone either.

Don't speak too quickly. Perhaps the guy will be embarrassed to ask again. Thus, the thought will be lost and the thread of this conversation will be interrupted.

• You not only can, but you must look for interesting topics of conversation.

Surely, you already know all his affairs and hobbies. This is a worthy reason to ask what’s new in his life or what he plans to do after he graduates from college, moves to a new position, or changes the tires on his car. Another trick you can use to get him to talk is to look into the past! For example, a week ago he told you about the situation at work. And today you ask him how that story ended. He will be very pleased that you remember those events and are interested in them. For him, this means that you want to take part in his life.

Your attentiveness will help you find a worthy topic and support it in conversation. If you really listen to a guy, you will find it interesting and easy to carry on conversations. Another thing is correspondence. There is no longer not only touch, but even a charming voice. We have to rely on letters and emoticons.

On the one hand, when texting a guy, you cannot fully convey your feelings to him in words. However, using different methods, you can achieve success here, namely, to attract the attention of a guy.

Hint to the guy that many - but not all - of the statuses you write are thinking about him. Let him suffer in guessing which ones are for him, and which ones are simply a reflection of your soul.

How to interest a guy via SMS

Messages are fundamentally different from other types of communication. Many people say that texting is for schoolgirls in love. Maybe it is so. But why don’t we – mature and experienced girls – benefit from these rather short messages.

1. It should be made a mandatory ritual morning greetings and good night wishes. Make these messages as mandatory as a morning cup of energizing coffee and a relaxing evening bath. Create a certain “anchor” for the guy. He should wait for your SMS and get worried if one day they don’t show up. This will give him the opportunity to evaluate how needed you are in his life.
2. SMS throughout the day are appropriate only when you are sure that the young man is not currently receiving a scolding from his boss. Otherwise, your SMS will only cause anger.
3. Send him the original verse or some clever phrase from the greats. The first will cheer him up, the second will give him additional motivation.

I would like to separately note: do not bombard him with messages for no reason. Don't make a guy regret giving you his phone number.

Let's say that all your previous methods of communication were successful. And today is the long-awaited day when he invited you on a date. You need to prepare well so as not to spoil the fruits of your labor:

You should look like a doll. Choose the clothes that suit you best. But don’t forget about the appropriateness of the outfit. In some cases, it may not be convenient to wear jeans and a T-shirt. But again, we need to look at the situation. His photos on his profile will help you here. Look at how he is dressed most of the time and go by that. In any case, no matter what clothes you choose, hairstyle, manicure and pedicure, as well as seductive perfume are integral attributes of your today's look.

What to talk about? There shouldn't be any problems here at all. Duplicate topics from correspondence and telephone conversations. More precisely, do not completely duplicate them, but continue their development. Most likely, during the conversations, new interesting topics will emerge. All conversations - not only with him, but with people in general - must be looked at as potential for further development. It happens that a phrase you hear somewhere gives birth to a new idea in your head. From this idea, a new turn of events in life is then born.

Even if the first two points have been completed, if you don’t know how to behave, then everything was in vain. It would seem that we associate ugly behavior in society with some savages or people of a low circle. However, watch yourself and your surroundings. How often do you get annoyed by a friend who talks loudly on the street? Or your little sister, who - with the air of an English queen - scolds the waiter for a minor misunderstanding?

Pay attention to yourself and how you behave outside the home. Are you repeating their mistakes? After all, behavior can be very contagious. If you notice this about yourself, correct it immediately. It’s not enough for a young man to be shy in your company and stay away from you!

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We can say that it is quite easy to please a person. You just need to understand what attracts him in this life, what goals he pursues, what views he holds - and give it to him. After all, no one will ever refuse to get a wife who is smart and beautiful in one bottle!

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There is a widespread belief that the first step must be on the part of the guy. That’s true, but in the modern world, girls quite often have to take the initiative into their own hands. And everyone knows the famous words from the song, where for every ten girls there are only nine guys. So it turns out that if you wait for the first step from a guy, you can grow old alone. But now it’s not about sad things.

In order not to miss out on her happiness, every girl should be able to attract the attention of representatives of the opposite sex. This is the first step towards acquaintance, which in the future may turn out to be fateful. But what can you do to get a guy interested?

1. Appearance.

To attract the attention of men, any girl must first look stunning. Even if the young lady uses the most incredible psychological methods of attracting attention, but turns out to be a gray mouse, consider that she has no chance with a worthy partner.

Therefore, first of all, a pleasant but unobtrusive appearance: neat manicure, light makeup, elegant hairstyle, stylish clothes, decent figure and other feminine charms. Believe me, appearance is the calling card of any woman.

2. Competent speech.

The Greek philosopher Socrates once said: “Speak so that I can see you.” This aphorism also holds true in the modern world. After all, behind a beautiful wrapper (appearance) there must be a deep soul, a sensual nature, an educated personality. And nothing else characterizes a person more than his speech.

If a woman has a pleasant timbre of voice and a moderate rate of speech, then communicating with her will be pleasant and calm. In addition, she must correctly formulate sentences, use literary vocabulary, and in no case swear. This will help complement your pleasant appearance with an equally pleasant manner of speech, which, you see, is very good in achieving your goal.

3. Self-confidence.

A trait characteristic of strong, strong-willed and purposeful women. Men like such candidates. After all, today not every guy is ready to support his beloved girl. Representatives of the fairer sex have achieved equality.

Therefore, in order to be popular with men, every girl from her youth must cultivate a very important trait in herself -.

Of course, you will have a question: how can you interest a guy more? More on this later. It all depends on the situation in which the girl and her potential “victim” find themselves.

4. Eye contact.

It has long been no secret to the female audience that you can interest a man with just one glance. But it must be correct and clearly thought out. And here many girls have problems, as they say, they don’t know how to make eyes. In this case, a simple psychological trick will help, which over time will come from the subconscious of every woman.

If a guy looks at a young lady, then she should answer him with a short look straight into the eyes, then smile and look away in the other direction, or better yet, turn away altogether.

If the guy doesn't notice the girl, then she needs to look at him until he pays attention to her. After an awkward meeting of the eyes, the girl should look down in embarrassment. Thanks to this behavior, the guy will see that the girl is embarrassed because she was taken by surprise. And that’s all the lady needs! But with such a demonstration, the main thing is not to overdo it. After all, while Mademoiselle is “embarrassed,” the guy may be taken away by another “hunter.” Therefore, after 2-3 seconds, the young lady should look up again and look the man in the eyes, then smile, become embarrassed again, and once again look away. Such a play of the eyes will not leave any man indifferent. Of course, if he doesn’t have a lover yet.

But when establishing eye contact, you need to be extremely careful, because a meaningless and downcast gaze, as well as an excessive number of insincere smiles, will only repel the potential “victim”.

5. Telephone conversation.

There are situations when appearance and looks will not help to interest a guy. This includes, for example, a telephone conversation. It would seem that a playful smile, a warm look and other feminine things won’t work, which means it’s a lost cause. But it was not there!

To know how to interest a guy during a telephone conversation, you need to follow simple but very useful tips:

• a girl should adapt to the guy’s manner of speaking, copy his timbre and intonation as far as possible;
• do not chatter into the phone, do not speak quickly, so as not to put the man in an awkward position due to the fact that you will have to ask again;
• a woman needs to choose interesting relationships with a guy, be attentive to details, and show sincere interest.

6. Interest a man in a personal conversation.

To begin with, as in any conversation, be it telephone, correspondence or personal conversation, you must show sincere, incorruptible interest. In any case, sincerity will put the girl in a much better light than the trap of lies, when the young lady tries to seem different from what she really is and lies, being interested in something that in real life does not bother her at all.

Regarding what question to interest a guy, everything is individual and largely depends on the topic being discussed. The only thing that can be advised is to listen carefully to your interlocutor and ask him about some details of this or that matter. Attention to detail will once again confirm that the young lady is really interested in the topic, and will present it favorably in the eyes of the guy.

7. Electronic correspondence.

Correspondence is even more difficult than any other type of communication. Here you won’t be surprised by your appearance, as in a personal conversation, or by your voice, as in a telephone conversation. The only tool is writing.

To interest a man, a woman should follow some tips during correspondence:

• first– sincerity. In any type of communication, this trait can show the girl in the right light;
• second– literacy. A perfectly literate written language is an indicator of a young lady’s education;
• third– originality. Under no circumstances should a girl use standard phrases or signs. You need to appear to the guy not as an ordinary average young lady, but as a special person.

Finally, we need to add a few more tips that will help beautiful ladies achieve the desired result:

• a woman must forever forget about two extremes: being obsessive and being afraid to be so;
• Every girl should strive to agree with herself. If some psychological trick for a lady seems wrong, then it is better not to use it;
• If a guy has a beloved, then it’s better not to count on him, so as not to disappoint him later in life and in these pieces of advice.

It’s very easy to meet a man these days, but how can you make him want to spend more time with you, distinguish you from other girls, and strive to get to know you better? Here are five steps to help you achieve this.

smile more

The simplest solution, which for some reason many girls ignore. A smile (not to be confused with loud laughter, which men, by the way, don’t like) makes a person more beautiful and happier. Men like it if a happy girl is next to him, this means that everything is fine with her and that there will be no problems with her.

Advice. A phrase like “When you’re around, I want to smile” makes a man melt like ice in the sun. Use it.

Look well-groomed

Being well-groomed does not mean bright makeup or the most fashionable clothes from the latest collections. Grooming is how you look next to him. Clean hair, healthy skin, fresh breath, well-done nails, a pleasant aroma subconsciously make a man think that if a woman takes care of her appearance, then she will also “take good care” of her man, children, and home. For a man who is committed to a long-term relationship, this is a very important indicator. Plus, any man is pleased to see such a woman nearby; he is not ashamed to invite her to a restaurant, a club, to his friends, to nature, which means you will meet much more often.

Advice. On our website there is an excellent article “10 signs of a well-groomed woman”, pay attention to it if you want to attract the attention of a worthy man.

Be a woman of mystery

A woman about whom a man knows absolutely everything on the third day of meeting becomes of little interest to him. There is no need to “dump” your whole life onto the stronger sex, just show that you have something to tell. If a topic that is close to him arises, provide a few details, showing that you are oriented in it, for example, “I am also interested in this / love this / went there,” and then say that “the rest, If you want, I’ll tell you later.” In this way, you will keep the mystery and intrigue him, because every person wants to communicate with someone who is close to his interests. Another thing is that you really should be able to say something next time, otherwise it will turn out that you deceived him. After all, there is the Internet, where there are answers to all questions and you can read about the topic you need.

Advice. Men always want everything at once, and you can hear the request “tell me now.” To maintain the intrigue, answer with a soft refusal, and there can be many reasons: the situation is not right, it’s a long story, photographs are needed, or, in the end, “today I’m in the mood for something else (for dinner, dancing, chatting with friends, etc.). ). Let him wait and think about how he can create that “different environment.”

Keep busy

I certainly don't mean "being busy with another man." I'm talking about the fact that girls who only “walk”, or, conversely, live an exclusively expensive “home-work-home”, have little attraction for modern men. Being busy means having a wide circle of friends and diverse interests. When communicating any information, randomly “scatter” it according to your interests. For example, “yesterday after fitness (swimming pool, theater, English courses) I...”, or “I met a friend at a picnic (in a tea shop, bookstore, while walking the dog), who told me that...”, or “I bake I’m making a pie (cake), making pizza (rolling rolls), and then they call me and say...” The man “as if by accident” received information that you are involved in fitness, like picnics and are an excellent pizza cook. Interesting!!! There is another huge advantage of this approach - men really like active women, this tells them that you won’t pester him with your whining about how you’re always alone, tired of sitting at home, let’s go somewhere, take me with yourself and stuff like that.

Advice. Ideally, you need to combine your “activities” with the man’s hobbies. You can do this even when you don’t understand anything at all about the issue. For example, a man is interested in fishing. Feel free to say that just a few years ago you, too, were in a fishing store. Say that there are so many interesting things there that you don’t understand anything about. And, of course, you don’t remember their names. He will ask why you came in? I’ll tell you a secret - these stores have a lot of things that are related not only to fishing. Mosquito repellents, picnic chairs, flashlights (to go to the basement), air mattresses, thermoses. In the end, “my friend and I were looking for a gift for a colleague.” Let him tell you what else is interesting there, the main thing for us is to hook him!

Be positive

This is already quite elementary - there is so much negativity in our lives now that everyone wants something big and bright. He can talk about anything, but you can't. Not a word about illnesses, unsuccessful marriages, bad bosses, terrible weather, and especially terrorists and wars. Everything should always be fine in your world! And if you (see above) smile, look well-groomed, talk about pleasant topics and like to listen about fishing))), he will perceive you as a bright, bright positive spot in his difficult life. And with such a person you want to communicate FURTHER AND MORE!

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The sight of a naive person gives me pleasure, if only he is angry and endowed with intelligence.

The law of contrast manifests itself in the ability to effectively demonstrate one’s own originality.(not to be confused with inadequacy!) This law allows you not only to intrigue a man, but to excite his imagination so that he can never be disappointed in you.

When you use contrasts in clothing, it distracts from flaws in your figure and facial skin; when you use them in behavior, it distracts from flaws in your character and intentions. And here’s another thing: those who commit actions that are not expected of them, whose reaction cannot be predicted in advance, are difficult to control. Your task is not to turn out to be a “flaky egg”, but to become that very “special case” that he wants to rack his brains over.

For example, you give a man an open compliment. It is clear that by doing this you are showing him your interest. But, hinting at your “availability”, you are in no hurry to reduce the physical distance between you, that is, you are not running into mistresses - you are not throwing yourself around your neck. Stand where you stood, demonstrating pent-up passion: it’s good with you, but not bad without you. You flatter his pride and... leave him alone. The signal has been given - next - he must do it himself.

But you can also do the opposite: come as close to him as possible and even touch his hand, looking expressively straight into his eyes. But then there is no need to say anything. When reducing physical distance, speak only the language of touch. And vice versa: when seducing verbally, do not forget to keep a physical distance.

This subtle seduction always leaves you a chance to retreat in time. Look into his eyes and you will know for sure whether you are on the right path. This way, you can bring a man to the boiling point and still keep the situation under control. And if you chat a lot, bat your long eyelashes like a cow, smile from ear to ear with brightly painted lips and at the same time flutter in front of him in a miniskirt - think about who you will look like then?

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